i dumped my ex because he did something really bad and it really hurt me. but it is still something that can be forgiven. but now he wants me back and he saying how sorry he is and that he cant live without me. hes trying so hard to get me back, but i dont like him as much as i use to, but if i give it another chance, maybe it will grow like it use to be. and theres this new guy, im starting to like. i think its the kind of like that might keep growing and i know that he likes me too. i know that if i go back to my ex, we will probably still last for a long time, if i continue liking him. if i go with the new guy, im not sure how long it will last and how much he likes me exactly.
we were all hanging out yesterday, when i told my ex that the new guy was gonna come, he got a little nervous and didnt want him to, because he knew that the new guy likes me.
after we all hung out, the new guy told me that he was a little jealous because of my ex. so i dont know what to do anymore…help?
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IMO you need to make a decision on one or the other, otherwise they will both feel played. I know I would if I were in that situation and guys have this big thing called ego lol
I wouldn’t get them two together = trouble.
Or, I think it is possible and ok to date both guys until you’re sure (You make the shots) as long as you are honest about it. But you have to go with your own instinct here … Goodluck
i have the same situation going on right now with the ex and the new guy im starting to like. . . but if ur ex said something that really hurt u and if he did this 1 he can probably do it again n its not ok if u get hurt again. i think if u give the new guy a chance and get to know him better and if you and him are on that level then u can decide what u want to do. . . goodluck
ohh and i went out with my ex for over a year and ive only known the new guy for about 2 months but i feel like i kinda know him.
if this helps?
okay.. do not, I repeat, do not.. have the two guys together.
.. don’t know if either are going to look well upon you now..
it’s just not a good mix.. how old are you.. this usually does
not happen.. group dates are just not the thing
but.. you still have a chance.. with either. so think what you
want to do.
I actually say.. be single. enjoy being unattached and single.
go on dates, and be comfortable that you are getting to know
new and interesting people. It sounds like the ex isn’t so
awesome, otherwise he wouldn’t be an ex.. I’d say avoid that,
an ex is an ex for a reason.
and sometimes you need to be single to get the independence
going to attract the awesomeness you totally deserve.. but do
not, repeat, do not mix the maybes and the potentials together,
it doesn’t look good for you or them.. it’s doesn’t show class.
either could easily find another girl who respects their
feelings.. there are a lot of girls out there just as there
are a lot of guys out there.. they’ll look beyond their
bubble one day too.
enjoy the situations for what the are.. don’t rush for a
relationship.. look for compatibility.
I read your comment about knowing the guy for 2 months and dating the other for a year.. looks like you may be interested in the 2 months guy.. give yourself the chance to get to know him. and step away from the ex for a little while, it’s hard to get to know someone when you’re still very in contact with your ex.. in fact.. it’s actually the potential-the 2 month guy- who is super, lazer-sharp aware that you are still talking to your ex.. it seriously doesn’t look good.. either keep the ex or completely leave the ex.. its really one or the other.. no wrapping one around your little finger for just in case.. its just not fair.. they know it, they see it