right well this my story…
i have been meeting this boy on and off for ages now…. and it all started 2 years agoo… at this point he likedd me but never ask me out? but we meet up like 3 times a week it was like we was in relationship, we would do things that people do in rellationship and i fell in love with him,,, by like 7months gone, this gy changed he mind and said he didnt like me but would still enjoy to meet me as a mate, cos i didnt wanana get hurt and he made me ever sso happy when i was with him i agreeed…. and then it came to like a year later and he will jsut keep running back to mee… then we got into arguement nd he found him self a grilfriend… he was with this girl for like 9 months.. within these 9 months he was still talking to me,, he also cheated on her with me and 8 other girls… now it a couple of months later and he has came running back again and meet me… but then he now trying to get back with his ex? she being so stuck up about it and he is kind off ingoring me now? but i dont know what to do i would say i am in love with guy and he only person that ever really makes me happy. when i spend my time withh him my smile is just immense and un breakableee :/ i am love stuck :/ what do you think i shoud do.
If he cheated eight times with eight other people; that’s a bad sign. Love or not, the guy is obviously a little too promiscuous for a relationship with you.
You should move on. That’s my opinion.
Find somebody more deserving of you.
I agree with Rob. Find somebody more for you.
Distance yourself from him. Slowly if it’s too hard to do. Get involved with activities, doesn’t have to be dating another guy, maybe better that it isn’t, actually. Hard when you reminisce and yet you’re out with another guy. Don’t do it, not good for you or him (a guy that did that once, not fun, you fall into counselor mode fast – or your case, the date would, they feel sorry for you). Catch up with friends, do things that make you glad to be the independent girl you really are. He’s not a good match. He may have qualities you like, but you can be focusing on so many other things that enhance your life. And you know, awesome fun independent girl music totally helps get that independent girl attitude back.
Easy to excuse things when you’re around each other I know. Everyone wants to think that they’re the exception, it doesn’t work that way, honestly, most of the time we aren’t.
looks like he wanted a no-strings attached, feel-good relationship. draw boundaries.
Best of luck
Hope the best for you