I met my boyfriend just over 4 years ago online. When I talked to him online I never actually thought I would meet and fall in love with this guy, so I told a few lies about myself & family that I have never really cleared up to him yet. Now I have noticed he has sort of got a hunch about a few things that aren’t true. He has been mentioning it and that if he ever found out I wasn’t being trueful he would leave me and so on. Other than the few lies that I have told early on in the relationship we truly love each other, never had any issues what so ever with cheating or not being happy with each other. I just don’t know what to do anymore, we both want to take our relationship to the next level (marriage) but he keeps telling me he thinks i’m hiding things… and I have not told the truth because I am too scared to loose him… I really need some advice if anyone could please help me i would greatly appreciate it
you really need to be honest with this guy. tell him the truth and why you lied and if he relly loves you he will stay with you. tell him you’re sorry and that you will never hide anything from him again and tell him how much you love him. you can’t build a marriage on secrets. you need to trust one another.
hope this helps.