Directly means: When you walk up to the girl and tell her you like her.
Indirectly means: You just play it cool.
The question at hand...
Do women like to be approached directly or indirectly? November 19th, 2008
Directly means: When you walk up to the girl and tell her you like her.
Indirectly means: You just play it cool.
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I like this question, however its a bit of a gray area…
It really depends on the girl, and the amount of time. I don’t think any girl wants someone she’s just met to come up to her randomly, or someone who hasn’t shown any signs of flirtation before that point for that matter. However, waiting around for someone to tell you isn’t fun either.
Personally, I’d like a few hints to be dropped so I can prepare myself, but don’t dangle me for too long or I’ll grow frustrated with you. It depends on the girl, and the guy but I’d say in general if you give hints for 2 weeks that you like a girl, then approach her. Don’t just run up to her, you have to plan it out enough so that it doesn’t put her on the spot.
You don’t want a sympathy date… or maybe you do?
I think if a random guy walked up and said “I think your cute.” That is very flattering. Wins a few points with me. But once you make the move dont be a dork and hang all over her. But DONT play hard to get..thats the worst.
It definatly depends on the girl. Give a few glances over and clues that you are into her first so that she knows that you are into her. If she doesnt respond or ignores you completely. Don’t go for it.
PLEASE! NO SHITTY PICK UP LINES
It depends on where you are and what the situation is. Definitely don’t walk up to a girl at a gas station WHILE she is pumping gas. That screams creepy right there.
I would say a club or party might be a good place to approach a girl. If there is eye contact between the two of you then go for it. Just walk up and start a conversation or ask to get her a drink or something.
I aggree with Sarah, no pick up lines.
But also, don’t be creepy.
Girls are naturally shy… Well most of us.Go directly!
If it’s a girl you’ve known for a while, let her know. If it’s someone you just met, throw a comment like I think your cute, or you’re really pretty. Girls appreciate it as long as you don’t cling.
As a girl most of us are shy or insecure because guys likfe to be jerks. but i would go with directly it always makes the complication of does he like me or don’t he less stressfull
Directly. I do not want a man shooting out random signals and playing with my emotions. I’m a very sensitive girl and you need to make an impression as a man who knows what he wants and one that does not plan on playing around. Not a boy who sends out mixed signals, you could be mistaken for a player.