I met a girl around mid december this christmas. We hungout for a while; while I was stuck in the friend zone.. then on christmas we finally had sex.
The last time I got her to open up and discuss our relationship she put me on the cuddy buddy level. I told her I was ok with it. But after a few good love sessions I was infatuated with her. She asked me one day if all I wanted was sex. I said no I want you! (end point)
The only time we kiss is when we cuddle or when we have sex. And during sex we don’t kiss often 90% of the time I’m the one kissing lol.
My friends have said I’ve become a yes man to her & I feel the same. She has all the power. I’m a nice guy (too nice sometimes). Like when I let her use facebook, myspace, and skype on my computer. She has guys trying to talk and flirt with her all day.
My friends say that just makes it easier for her to use me. I agree & I’ve explained to her how I feel about it and after keylogging a little I believe I can trust her but I still don’t like it.
When do I know its ok to kiss her? Should a guy be asking for a kiss, hug, or any type of physical contact?
my email is ac919nc@yahoo.com
for some reason yahoo does not accept emails from this domain
talk about the future, drop the pronoun “I” and talk about “we” and include her in everything you talk about.. let her see that you see her and you together long-term and in the future. Ask if she wants kids, ask what kind of wedding she wants. Ask her ring size. Ask her favorite chocolate. Ask if she like soft kisses.. add the romance to both of your lives. girls do look to guys to add the romance too.
how do you get her to open up? just ask her to. how do you get her to acknowledge the relationship? ask, it’s that simple.
Dude as a girl myself i’d say NEVER let ur girl use you like that! You need to set her straight! Yes you should ask for a kiss or hug or something! But if you want to be spontanious just grab her and randomly kiss her! She’ll open up if you ask thats what i do! If you really love her tell her! Its that simple!
I agree
O Well Should Havee Been On Piont Your fault You Let Her Rule You..Now What Ypur A Yes Man..Dint Try But Say No..Beacuse You Know Its Wrong..Ha
sit her down and tell her how you feel, it doesn’t make sense to make her treat you like that if you really like her