I haven’t been in a relationship in a long time… Over 2 years now. My last relationship was mostly about sex… Or that’s how it felt to me. The sex was really great at first, but after a while it would get boring sometimes. I started thinking that there wasn’t anything left. And at times I found myself thinking how I wish i could connect in other ways. I was a late bloomer and i wasn’t really good at communication and she was a few years older and a lot more socially developed. And i don’t really think our personalities were matched very well because she was really busy and I’m more layed back.

I’ve been riding the brakes with possible relationships, and maybe even feeling a little guilty about my last one. Any advice on getting motivated to move on?