Ok so I’ve been with this guy for a couple of months, but I’m not sure we are on the right track. In the beggining things were perfect, we were literally the perfect couple, but here lately it seems like he’s caring less and less about me. When we first started dating we were actually happy all of the time, and it seemed like i was his world, because that’s how he treated me. My problem is that he is always so ill towards me nowadays, and when I try to kiss him he always pulls away; it’s like he doesn’t want to touch me. We don’t even kiss during sex anymore, and when we do it’s nothing but a peck. He tells me everyday that he loves me, he just doesn’t act like it. We’ve been together for 5 months and he’s been living with me for 4, is it just because we see eachother too much or does he just not care? And is there anything I can do to make him act more like a boyfriend?
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talk to him find out what it is, if you’re not happy don’t stay. nobody is making you stay, it’s true, you have to find the happiness you want if you can’t talk together and find it together
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Could just be a communication issue, but moving in after only a month? Seems like you two took to fast of a track, maybe he’s found out something he doesn’t like? Talk to him!!!