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Is she a whore, who I’m trying to see as innocent?

Anonymous — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 15:25:18 +0000

I started dating this girl. I knew her through a friend, and we had talked online, and n the phone a few times. The first night she came over my house, we had sex within the first 20 minutes. It’s 6 months later, and we’re still dating. The sex is always amazing. She loves sex. I seriously doubt she would ever cheat on me, shes not that type, but her and her friends always joke about her being a stripper or porn star, because she is pretty hot, no lie. I asked her if she really wanted that, and she said that it would be really fun to be in a porno, and that she probably wouldn’t do it, but maybe would one time if she was paid a lot, just to do it. This is bothering me a lot, because i really dont see her as this kind of slutty girl. We joke about getting married and having kids and she was maybe going to live with me soon. I told her it bothered me, and that i didnt know what to think. Am i somewhat living a lie? Is this just a slutty girl who im trying to make her how i want to see her? Or is this a common response among women?

i found a naked photo now i dont know what to do someone please help!

Anonymous — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 21:53:47 +0000

so pretty much just like the question says i found a naked photo now i dont know what to do i was on in my bf hotmail looking at the saved emails when i clicked on one i didnt mean to only to find it was a naked girl so now i really dont know what to do we have been together almost 2years now he told me pretty soon into the relationship he had a porn addiction and i accepted it we where talking afew days ago and he promised me he has never cheated on me and i believe him but im worried about this photo the fact its from someone who has sent it to him i dont know what to do do i just forget about it or ask him? someone please help!

where is this going?

Anonymous — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 00:16:13 +0000

I met this other guy on a cruise, we exchanged emails and started chatting about 2 1/2 months ago. I spent 2 weeks at his home. since then we have talked on the phone every day sometimes 3 or 4 times a day. we talk every night for hrs he calls me all the time.
I really like him but not sure what his fellings are. what should I do?

How do I get my girlfriend to open up more & acknowledge our relationship

Anonymous — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 12:21:30 +0000

I met a girl around mid december this christmas. We hungout for a while; while I was stuck in the friend zone.. then on christmas we finally had sex.

The last time I got her to open up and discuss our relationship she put me on the cuddy buddy level. I told her I was ok with it. But after a few good love sessions I was infatuated with her. She asked me one day if all I wanted was sex. I said no I want you! (end point)

The only time we kiss is when we cuddle or when we have sex. And during sex we don’t kiss often 90% of the time I’m the one kissing lol.

My friends have said I’ve become a yes man to her & I feel the same. She has all the power. I’m a nice guy (too nice sometimes). Like when I let her use facebook, myspace, and skype on my computer. She has guys trying to talk and flirt with her all day.

My friends say that just makes it easier for her to use me. I agree & I’ve explained to her how I feel about it and after keylogging a little I believe I can trust her but I still don’t like it.

When do I know its ok to kiss her? Should a guy be asking for a kiss, hug, or any type of physical contact?

my email is ac919nc@yahoo.com
for some reason yahoo does not accept emails from this domain

how do i get my dream girl back?

Anonymous — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:39:25 +0000

i met her on a dating site and we had everything in common. she lives 2 hours away and i hate the distance but we told each other that we can make it work if we really try. we dated for a little bit and i realized she was perfect. she likes the same music as me, supports the decisions i make, tells me to follow my dreams, urges me to go back to school, accepts that i have a son etc. etc. etc. well i told her i loved her and she said she loved me as well. but i kinda of screwed up on valentines day. i had plans to see her and i was excited because it would be our first valentines day together. we both have different views on the holiday where she thinks its stupid and all about cards and chocolates and roses, and i think its a special day that you spend with someone you love whether you spend cash or not. well she decided not to see me and i got really upset and broke it off. two days later i realized i had done a terrible thing when she went and spent the night at a guy friend of hers. she says they didnt do anything and if they did its not my business. i told her i want her back and she says i have to prove it. i love her to death but i dont know how to prove it to her. i was going to write her a song but i feel its kind of cliche and also when im pressured to write i cant come up with anything good. what should i do? i really love this girl and it would tear me up if i had to live with out her…

how can i get horny fast and stay horny longer?

Anonymous — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 04:50:47 +0000

my boyfriend is always horny and gets horny fast. i dont like the way my body is but he loves my body. right when we start having sex i start thinking about if he is looking at body and i just get out of the mood

Old Girlfriend

Anonymous — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 12:49:31 +0000

Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 years back. She married somebody else. Now she has suddenly mailed me and wants to explain as to what happened and wants to know if we can sort things out and find some sort of closure. I don’t know if I should reply back. Please advice.

Should I be concerned?

Anonymous — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 12:23:53 +0000

Okay, try this one. My wife and I are both 50 years old. We have been married 28 years. We met in college and got married soon after graduating. When my wife started dating me, she broke up with her boyfriend, who I believe never got over her. During our wedding reception, he was in tears and could not talk to my new wife — you be the judge, but I believe that he was still grieving over losing her to me. We then lost contact with him soon after. Fast forward 28 years. We have 2 kids (ages 16 and 14) and a stable marriage. She told me she encountered her former boyfriend on a college reunion website. Turns out that this former boyfriend has been married 25 years but his marraige is breaking up. I find out, from reviewing her cell phone call log that she had begun talking with him again, sometimes for more than an hour at a time, while I am at work. (she is a stay at home mom). Anyway, today I tried to call her cell and could tell I was placed in the “call waiting” cue. About 10 minutes later she calls me back and apologizes, saying that she was on the phone making doctors’ appointments. When I checked her call log it turns out she was in an hour-long conversationo with her ex boyfriend. But she had to lie to me about what she was doing on the phone. What should I do? Is this a warning sign?

good place to meet guys

Anonymous — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 16:33:32 +0000

So what’s a good place to meet nice guys? Not like bars or anything. Starbucks? Definitely not dating sites!

In grad school, but the guys tend to actually be either married and/or older or in the divorced category, sorry divorced sounds like too much for me.

just curious what you would all say.

WIfe talking to ex-boyfriend

Anonymous — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 02:06:21 +0000

My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have two beautiful kids together. She has recently got in contact with her ex-boyfriend, who is also her first love and they never really broke up, my wife moved to the U.S. where she continued her life without him. My wife was the one that made the initial phone call, she got his phone number from her cousin, who just happen to run into him and that is how my wife found out that he was now living just a few miles away now. My wife admitted to talking to him throughout the day while she was at work (which was almost 4 hours total). I felt uncomfortable with my wife talking so much with her ex and I attempted to tell her how I felt about her talking so much with her ex; however, she got defense with me and we ended up in a terrible argument. The following day I noticed that my wife spent over 3 hours talking to him again while at work. That night I reviewed her text messages and read some messages that he wrote that made me extremely upset. He had wrote messages such as: “It brings me great joy dreaming about you”, “I’m going crazy wanting to see you again”, “I can’t wait to hear your voice again”, and “I can spend all day talking to you”. I confronted my wife about the messages and he wrote and told her that I wish she would stop talking to her ex completely. My wife continues stating that there isn’t anything going on between them, and that she told him that he needs to stop talking like that because she is married. My wife also feels that I am just being jealous and insecure about our relationship. I told my wife that I feel that I am being very reasonable and I am very secure with our relationship; however, it’s not appropriate for her to continue any kind of relationship with her ex. She ha told me that she is not going to stop talking to him because she is not doing anything wrong. Let me also mention that he ha a girlfriend that he has been seeing for 7 years and she is clueless about what is going on, and my wife told me that his girlfriend does not know because she knows my wife and would disapprove. Don’t know what to do. I love my wife and wish not to have this end our relationship but I will not be ok with this continuing. Any advice will help.