I met my guy friend back in January.. I had a boyfriend and this is how the story goes… I meet this guy in nursing school.. we instantly get along and become very good friends… all awhile Im not seeing him in a romantic way because I have a boyfriend. Anyway, he did sweet things for me, like offer to cook me dinner and invited me to stay at his house while my electricity went out during the ice storm. We talked more than I talked to my boyfriend and I was happy but I still didnt see him as more than a friend because I was too obsessed with making my current relationship work out… time went by and as my current situation got more and more serious with the boyfriend my “friendship” with my friend faded into almost nothing.. Semester was over and at the start of May my boyfriend dumped me. I still hadnt talked to my friend, but gradually I started to realize maybe I had had feelings for him and had ignored them because of my loyalty to my relationship. I decided to start texting my friend again and seeing how he responded… We went to the bars a couple times with mutual friends and he was very touchy/flirty but that’s not unusual because he’s an outgoing guy (with me at least). He picked me up, danced with me, and the next morning I even got a text from him saying “I hope you had a good time, you looked really pretty”… I was feeling good about that but then Id never hear from him anymore.. I started texting again but it was getting old having to start all of the conversations. He asked me to go camping, but never really planned a date.. im very confused. I decided i’d step it up and ask him to go to a wedding with me… he said yes, but im still not hearing much from him.. I always have to text him first but he always answers.. ALSO he’s currently living in a different city over the summer.. im not sure whats going on here… should I keep tryng or should I let it go?
You should wait for a while before getting into another relationship. If you get in a relationship again you should wait for him to ask you for more.
wedding is too much to go to.
too soon for anything like camping.
there’s a reason why people go for
coffee first.. but do something fun
instead like play a sport together..
try tennis or volleyball. Have fun
together.. weddings are too serious.
Camping is too suggestive.. build
something with the guy.