We dated about twelve years ago, and recently became reconnected about a year ago.
The question at hand...
Recently, I was told by a friend of mine that I was a threat to his relationship because he is dating someone. Does that mean that he has feeling for me.? November 24th, 2009
It doesn’t mean that he has feelings for you. It may just mean that he is open with his girlfriend that he has a friend, you.. and she doesn’t like what she hears, esp since you’ve dated each other before. You won’t believe how uncensored some guys can be about their past relationships with their current girlfriend or potential.. kinda scary. But it comes down to: you two dated. That puts things in a whole different category than something like- we just worked together.
Again, he has to re-evaluate what he sees as important, a friendship from 12 years ago that just became a reconnect (chances don’t look too good), a relationship potential (honestly, more weight to this one), and.. you have to know that you don’t know what he is saying or what the girlfriend is thinking.
i think it sounds like he isn’t worth ur time or worry.
let it go.. there are better friends out there
It means that his girl is threatened by him being friends with someone he slept with before. I think that’s smart. Never understood hanging onto the past anyway. So just move on. He is telling her all this and being so open because he loves her.