so i met this guy while i was on vaca with my family about 2 weeks ago. we met 3 days before both of us where leaving but for the last 3 days we spent so much time together, we even hung out with his fam and stuff like that. It’s weird i never felt this way about a guy before, i dont want to say i “fell in love with him” becuase i dont believe you can fall in love in 3 days but i fell hard, he seemed to feel the same. so anyway we texted for a few days said we missed eachother wish we lived closer but havnt talked very recently(he lives about 3 hours away) but he’s going to school about 25 min. away from me this fall .. unfortuantly when i first met him he looked a lot older then he really was so i told him i graduated hs this year (i’m, actually going to be a senior this year) and obv. he would ask where i was going to school so i was an idiot and came up with a school thats in conn. (we live in MA) so 1.) should i just try to get over him, was it just a silly fling and 2.) if i told him the truth that i’m going to be only a half hour away coming fall will it matter? .. sorry this is so long! i jsut feel sick everytime i think of him, i miss him so much.
It sounds like lust, which there’s nothing wrong with that. If you want to try to pursue something further, go for it. If you think you can follow through, but there are plenty of guys to lust over around you. See how he feels, call him if you can, and see how he feels. Communicate.
I have been married for 10 years and I just found my wife was having a “Fling”. I know in my heart there is more to a relationship of love than just wanting a person. The man my wife was with had never met her children nor had ever been in an arguement with her. How can one judge love when they do not know the person they are attempting to love. I was told she loved him. How can one love when they have never been with a person in the open? How can one love when they only show the infatuation and not themselves. I know in my heart I could never love again without knowing the person is true, sincere, and committed to more than just the idea of me. I will eventually find another person to give my heart to but I feel at this moment I only have little to give. If you think you can give everything to the man, your bad breath, your uncontrollable emotions, your unconditional beliefs in him, and also, most importantly, your respect, than good luck to you. I think you have to dig very deep before you are willing to give your soul to anything and after three days maybe you haven’t seen everything or anything he is willing to give to you!!!
If you lied about your age, hes not going to be too happy about that. Whenever your looking for a serious relationship, don’t lie about the important things, or just be honest asap, the truth comes out sooner or later.