Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now.. everythings great… but I am extremely insecure with myself and I’m constantly worrying he might be dumping me soon ( only because this is the longest I have been with anyone). Well we went to dinner and a movie last night and he was telling me about when he went down to drill ( he is in the national guard) and how he had to borrow this girl’s beanie ( which he had on then too) because he forgot his. That was fine because he usually forgot his anyway but then he told me about his woman friend who was extremely klutzy and how she tripped and he kinda did this spinny move to catch her… they were jokin and cutting up and he told me he said something along the lines of ” Oh no my girlfriend would kill me”. Now my question is do I have anything to worry about? Or am I just letting my insecurities get in the way??? Also we are happy… and unfortuantely I made the mistake of telling him a mutual friend has been hitting on me and won’t stop..
he also had asked me if I was jealous too and then made a comment saying ” Isn’t it better to be sexually attracted then emotionally attached? so that set my mind off wondering if he was attracted to her
It’s human nature to be attracted to other people, there is no changing that no matter how much you love somebody. It’s not a question of if he’s attracted to her, of course he is, the question is if he would cheat on you. So I guess you need to reevaluate your relationship and yourself and see if you are secure enough to be in a relationship with someone that will not always be around.
Hun, the first question that you have to ask yourself is, do you or do you not trust your boyfriend? If the answer to this question is yes, then relax and enjoy. If the answer is no you really don’t trust him, then you have to ask yourself, do you really want to be in a relationship like that? A relationship without trust is not worth worring about, it takes all of the joy out of it. Besides, doesn’t he keep coming back to you? He doesn’t have to you know. You must have his beanie…..;)