I met my bf on Jan 2010. After some texts and calls, we decided to go steady on 14th of Feb. Since then,we enjoy quarreling. We do that most of the time and i love it when he says sorry or when i apologize if i’m the one who’s at fault.He’s my second serious bf. He’s the only one i’ve went to bed with. I am not sure whether i did the right thing. I still can’t believe we’re still together,despite knowing each other for about 7 months. I’ve always thought i am the kind of girl who’ll go steady in a relationship for not more than 3 mths.Oh,and my sister simply hates him. Now,even my bf doesn’t like her. I feel so in between. My sister keeps on telling me that he isn’t the one for me and that i am making a huge mistake being with him.I care about him and i do love him. Now i am not sure if my parents are going to approve of him too.And the another thing is,i am afraid his family is not going to like me too.
I am not sure if i should still continue this relationship or just let go… although if i am to follow my heart then,i would rather be with him. I am afraid of my future and his.
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Do you feel happy with him? Does he treat you with respect? If so, forget what other people think. It’s good to remember your sister cares about you, but, it’s your life and your decision who you choose to spend your time with. As long as he isn’t trying to alienate you from your friends/family, and your relationship is more than sex, it’s truly up to following your gut on this one.
Live for today, because that could be all there is. Relationships come and go, just have fun. You’re not 80 yet, right?
Good luck! Let us know what you choose, if you’d like.