Met a girl at church. I was chatting to her online and asked if she wanted to meet up before a church event the following evening which we were both going to. She said no as she would be working right up until right before the event. That’s fair enough I thought. So I asked if she wanted to meet on the following Tuesday but she said she wasn’t sure as she was very busy with driving lessons and assignments.
My question is, is this just an excuse? A gentle let down?
Or is it a legitimate reason and she is actually interested in meeting up if and when she finds time?
What should I do?
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Here’s what you should do: wait until she contacts you. If she doesn’t get in touch with you within two weeks, chances are she’s just busy, or she wasn’t interested enough to stay in touch with you.
Do not hound her. That helps nothing. Ask her upfront if you must if she’s interested in pursuing a relationship or dating.