hello i am a 53 year old male and i have not been hornie anymore? My wife is 24 years old and she is getting frustrated with me because i dont have that gleem in my eye any more!
I do still love her but i am not getting hornie with her anymore.
When i do see other pretty girls all i want to do is have sex with them and then that makes me hornie?
Can anyone please solve this problem for me?


I don’t like the age difference, but.. as for advice,
are there any underlying issues you or she are not happy with each other? maybe there is something about you or her that you are not happy with that is getting in the way of the physical aspect of the relationship. could be an opinion on a matter, realization of something or another that gets on your mind and just stays there.
looks like this is more of an issue of you having something on your mind that gets you to view her in a different kind of way than before. maybe something you did and constantly think about, something she said that is always on your mind or something you just know and aren’t really happy about.. until you can work on what that is, I think it still kinda stays with you. try going out on dates together, find something about each other that puts the spring in your steps.
Thank you for your advice! i will try that too!
From experience…just be honest. Be yourself. But I do have to say, that since I put a pic of my cat in as my main profile pic, I have gotten hundreds of views. I have had more than my share of dates, and mostly good. There are ways to weed out the bad ones!
http://www.casualdate.eu/blogs/polite-manners-to-dating-girls/