I met a girl two years ago, based on her behavior I could tell she was interested in me. I on the other hand, was being rude back at her. Reason for it being that I had been backstabbed by a few girls short before it, and I thought she was going to do the same thing to me.

When things cleared up for me a little, she was long gone from the club I was still on. Realizing how I have been, I wanted to make up to her. About three months ago, I stumbled across her on a social site (through luck), and immediately took the chance.

I sent her a message, asking if she still knew me. I forgot that it was a day before valentines day, which possibly caused her to think wrong of the intentions I had. A week later I contacted her again, this time telling her that I was sorry for the way I have been, and that I really saw her as a nice person. Even now, I never had a response from her, and I have no idea why as I apologized for pretty much the only reason she could be mad at me.

Even now I keep asking myself: How is she seeing me now? I guess I do like her a little. I admit I shouldn’t have reacted the way I did, but at the time I really didn’t know any better.

Can I, given the current situation, still contact her, and how should I do this?

It is my understanding that she is going into the city to have lunch with him and they also discussed going out to some bars. She said I probably would not go since I do not like that scene (that is a lie). She has mentioned nothing to me. She tells me she is texting her friends.

I know she gets depressed. In my opinion, since I drop the baby at daycare most of the week and she works from home I think I spend most of the time caring or the baby. It seems like she is cold sometimes and then real loving others. I am assuming she is just in need of an escape. She never wants to see me for lunch. She never tells me she wants to go out. She has no friends but indicates she thinks girls are too bitchy. If she goes, no matter how innocent it is, I will consider this emotional cheat number two. She has an excuse or everything or all least knows how to make it my fault.

When I try to talk to her I get screamed at as to why I am looking at her stuff and her phone. She is a very nice person and I try to do whatever she needs to fell good about herself but I think her attitude and her actions are no becoming of a wife and other. She may think I’m stupid but when you increase your texting plan and start using your phone (an instrument of electronics you always have hated) all say and at night after I fall asleep then I think you open the door to questioning. I think she may feel like she missed out on something since we have been together so long and I am supposedly the only man she has ever “been” with. I just don’t get it and feel so angry toward her. I know I am just ranting but if anyone has any insight please feel free.

This post was submitted by indofuzzy.

Well I found out today of her secret email and facebook acconts where 2 of the 3 exs were apart of. Nothing was up on it just exs. Well I found out she had called her one ex, Jimmy, who was a teacher her senior year she slept with, and I had found the number back then and she said it was her boss and not to call it, wish I would have now lol.

Anyways we seperated in February, and she contacted all three of her exs, 1 is a drunk still, married working in Missouri, the other one Chris, told her that he wanted nothing to do with her. The other ex, Jimmy lives 6 hours away so not that convient. We got back together in March.

Well I confronted her and she apologized for it all and said she was depressed cause of her figure since the baby borned 2 years ago, and not having money, tho now I’m making great money. She also kinda got defensive calling me crazy for snooping. So I want to know what you would do with knowing all this?