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Ok here goes, I met this girl who had an abusive ex, we got along pretty well for 2 months. Then in the 3rd month she told me she cant be with me as a girlfriend but can be my friend. I could not believe her but stayed with her taking to her day in day out I kept telling her I love her but she kept saying that I am her friend. This abusive ex is a stalker and after breaking up with me she did confide with me that she had feelings for him. A few days back she said she loves me but very next day she was back to saying I am her friend, this abusive ex was always there in her life even when we were together he used to stalk her keep calling texting basically make her life hell. He now meets her everyday, they now even go for movies, recently she started learning a bike and a car and she always has this guy with her. She now always has something to tell about this guy to me in our conversations she seems to be happy with him again, she seems to have forgotten how abusive he was. Apart from all this I still crave for her I am always there for her in grief, I love her a lot, What should I do I am really confused. Should I stay or just leave her alone and go away.

Ok so me and my partner have been together for 2year this month were very much in love and so i want to do/give him something totally special but i have no idea what to do/give him iv looked online for some ideas but im still not to sure all the ideas iv found im pretty much done so im finding it hard to come up with ideas i came up with an idea about writing him a song singing and putting it into like a mini movie with lots of pictures of us only thing is i cant really sing lol but i know he will still stay he loves it no matter what so I don’t know if I should do this or not I would really love some ideas/ thoughts on what you have to say look forward to hearing from yous!

so pretty much just like the question says i found a naked photo now i dont know what to do i was on in my bf hotmail looking at the saved emails when i clicked on one i didnt mean to only to find it was a naked girl so now i really dont know what to do we have been together almost 2years now he told me pretty soon into the relationship he had a porn addiction and i accepted it we where talking afew days ago and he promised me he has never cheated on me and i believe him but im worried about this photo the fact its from someone who has sent it to him i dont know what to do do i just forget about it or ask him? someone please help!

My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have two beautiful kids together. She has recently got in contact with her ex-boyfriend, who is also her first love and they never really broke up, my wife moved to the U.S. where she continued her life without him. My wife was the one that made the initial phone call, she got his phone number from her cousin, who just happen to run into him and that is how my wife found out that he was now living just a few miles away now. My wife admitted to talking to him throughout the day while she was at work (which was almost 4 hours total). I felt uncomfortable with my wife talking so much with her ex and I attempted to tell her how I felt about her talking so much with her ex; however, she got defense with me and we ended up in a terrible argument. The following day I noticed that my wife spent over 3 hours talking to him again while at work. That night I reviewed her text messages and read some messages that he wrote that made me extremely upset. He had wrote messages such as: “It brings me great joy dreaming about you”, “I’m going crazy wanting to see you again”, “I can’t wait to hear your voice again”, and “I can spend all day talking to you”. I confronted my wife about the messages and he wrote and told her that I wish she would stop talking to her ex completely. My wife continues stating that there isn’t anything going on between them, and that she told him that he needs to stop talking like that because she is married. My wife also feels that I am just being jealous and insecure about our relationship. I told my wife that I feel that I am being very reasonable and I am very secure with our relationship; however, it’s not appropriate for her to continue any kind of relationship with her ex. She ha told me that she is not going to stop talking to him because she is not doing anything wrong. Let me also mention that he ha a girlfriend that he has been seeing for 7 years and she is clueless about what is going on, and my wife told me that his girlfriend does not know because she knows my wife and would disapprove. Don’t know what to do. I love my wife and wish not to have this end our relationship but I will not be ok with this continuing. Any advice will help.

right well this my story…
i have been meeting this boy on and off for ages now…. and it all started 2 years agoo… at this point he likedd me but never ask me out? but we meet up like 3 times a week it was like we was in relationship, we would do things that people do in rellationship and i fell in love with him,,, by like 7months gone, this gy changed he mind and said he didnt like me but would still enjoy to meet me as a mate, cos i didnt wanana get hurt and he made me ever sso happy when i was with him i agreeed…. and then it came to like a year later and he will jsut keep running back to mee… then we got into arguement nd he found him self a grilfriend… he was with this girl for like 9 months.. within these 9 months he was still talking to me,, he also cheated on her with me and 8 other girls… now it a couple of months later and he has came running back again and meet me… but then he now trying to get back with his ex? she being so stuck up about it and he is kind off ingoring me now? but i dont know what to do i would say i am in love with guy and he only person that ever really makes me happy. when i spend my time withh him my smile is just immense and un breakableee :/ i am love stuck :/ what do you think i shoud do.

i dumped my ex because he did something really bad and it really hurt me. but it is still something that can be forgiven. but now he wants me back and he saying how sorry he is and that he cant live without me. hes trying so hard to get me back, but i dont like him as much as i use to, but if i give it another chance, maybe it will grow like it use to be. and theres this new guy, im starting to like. i think its the kind of like that might keep growing and i know that he likes me too. i know that if i go back to my ex, we will probably still last for a long time, if i continue liking him. if i go with the new guy, im not sure how long it will last and how much he likes me exactly.
we were all hanging out yesterday, when i told my ex that the new guy was gonna come, he got a little nervous and didnt want him to, because he knew that the new guy likes me.
after we all hung out, the new guy told me that he was a little jealous because of my ex. so i dont know what to do anymore…help?

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Well, I met this guy from my best friend. He was her best friend. We started off being friends and we just clicked. WE both admitted that we liked each other. He said we couldn’t date because we live too far away. (btw im in ny, and he lives in tx) and i totally understood. but a month into talking he said he loved me. and i said it back. we moved very far in a short while. and in sept. he asked me out. i said yes of course but about 3 weeks ago. I did something stupid. I sorta cheated. meaning that i started talking to a guy saying stuff about how i thought he was hot and such and flirted reallly bad with him. and i sorta said i would do some stuff. i know i know bad me. but i made a mistake, i admit that. and i felt bad. so i told my bf. he broke up with me right there and then. and i truely do love him. im in love with him. i want him back. but he is so angry with me. and he said he forgives me, but he cant forget. and i told him that i dont want him to forget. because i’ll
never forget. im angry with myself for it. and i broke his heart. and i feel so bad. i want him back. he changed my mind on marriage and kids. i never wanted them. but i do with him. and i saw a life with him. he changed me. i made a mistake and cheated. idc that its a long distance relationship. im IN love with him. and idk what to do to get him to just give me one more chance. thats all im asking. to help him fix his heart. and to prove i can be faithful. i know “once a cheater, always a cheater” but i will change. for him. its the first time i cheated. but i dont want to mess up again. im so in love with him.

this may sound stupid but im gonna make it short. To start off I want to give a little backround on me so you can see where i’m coming from better. I am a paranoid person when it comes to relationships and a boyfriends commitment to me. Mainly do to self esteem issues after eating disorders and such, my matabolism slowed down much so I gain weight easily, I always compare myself to other females and think wow there so hot why does he want to be with me? Any way I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and we are certainly in love. We even often bring up marriage way down the road and living together and children… etc. I try not to get completley hopeful because I know things happen.. and once again I am a very paranoid person!! So here’s the problem he wants to get a facebook and I’m scared he will see all the pictures of his previous girlfriend whom he also was with for a year. He broke up with her, I don’t ask questions cause it’s his past. But his x-girlfriend is hot and has a perfect body. Now just for your information im not overweight or anything, I am just very hard on myself. But i’m worried that him getting this facebook will bring them back together and then i’m out of the picture!! Honestly it makes me ill thinking about it, literally. I don’t know if I should discuss this with him or is that a bad idea. I know this is stupid haha. Any opinions would be great thanks!

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I’ve been dating this girl for almost a year now and things have been pretty good. Recently, I’ve began talking with an old friend of mine, who I’ve had the biggest crush for years. I see her around occasionaly, but didn’t really get a chance to talk to her that often. My feelings for her sorta went dormaint for a while, untill I recently began talking to her again. Now I’m having an battle within myself to decide on what I should do. I would never cheat on my gf for any reason. I need some advice on what I should do to solve this problem.

Hi.. i am going out with this guy for so many years now. the problem is that it is a long distance relationship. I tried to break it off but it just hard to do it or i am not sure if its me who’s holding on to it. he is a nice guy..but i think that our future is not as easy it looks because i live in different country and at some point we both are not willing to move from their countries. I don’t know if i should still go out with this guy because at once he says he loves me a lot and if we have fights he was like i don’t trust u ..and all the harsh stuff which i think i dont even deserve to listen. I do think that i am thinking about tom. and the future but i am just doing it for both of us because i think that if we break it off now ..tom. we won’t get hurt as much …I am not too sure if i should be going out with a guy who has different view points then i do?

thanks!