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I started dating this girl. I knew her through a friend, and we had talked online, and n the phone a few times. The first night she came over my house, we had sex within the first 20 minutes. It’s 6 months later, and we’re still dating. The sex is always amazing. She loves sex. I seriously doubt she would ever cheat on me, shes not that type, but her and her friends always joke about her being a stripper or porn star, because she is pretty hot, no lie. I asked her if she really wanted that, and she said that it would be really fun to be in a porno, and that she probably wouldn’t do it, but maybe would one time if she was paid a lot, just to do it. This is bothering me a lot, because i really dont see her as this kind of slutty girl. We joke about getting married and having kids and she was maybe going to live with me soon. I told her it bothered me, and that i didnt know what to think. Am i somewhat living a lie? Is this just a slutty girl who im trying to make her how i want to see her? Or is this a common response among women?

I met a girl around mid december this christmas. We hungout for a while; while I was stuck in the friend zone.. then on christmas we finally had sex.

The last time I got her to open up and discuss our relationship she put me on the cuddy buddy level. I told her I was ok with it. But after a few good love sessions I was infatuated with her. She asked me one day if all I wanted was sex. I said no I want you! (end point)

The only time we kiss is when we cuddle or when we have sex. And during sex we don’t kiss often 90% of the time I’m the one kissing lol.

My friends have said I’ve become a yes man to her & I feel the same. She has all the power. I’m a nice guy (too nice sometimes). Like when I let her use facebook, myspace, and skype on my computer. She has guys trying to talk and flirt with her all day.

My friends say that just makes it easier for her to use me. I agree & I’ve explained to her how I feel about it and after keylogging a little I believe I can trust her but I still don’t like it.

When do I know its ok to kiss her? Should a guy be asking for a kiss, hug, or any type of physical contact?

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my boyfriend is always horny and gets horny fast. i dont like the way my body is but he loves my body. right when we start having sex i start thinking about if he is looking at body and i just get out of the mood

I met a really attractive and intelligent woman at a party a few weeks ago. It was a public event at an art gallery. She was a high school teacher in her early thirties. We had been talking for a good half hour and really seemed to be hitting it off. We even exchanged email addresses and had made tentative plans to meet for coffee sometime.

Then, things suddenly went downhill. I commented that she had a “nice, full, hourglass figure”. I thought she would take it as a compliment but instead she became deeply offended. She snapped, “Oh really….well perhaps I should do some plus size modeling!” I went into damage control mode and tried to clarify my comments but I think I only exacerbated things when I used the term “healthy”. With a look of complete disgust, she slapped my face and departed.

I will never forget those agonizing moments in the immediate aftermath, as I was standing there alone rubbing my cheek, drawing some judgemental stares from onlookers. Needless to say, it was not my proudest moment, LOL.

She had the classic figure of a 50’s pinup – large bust, narrow waist, shapely hips/legs. I guess she had interpreted “hourglass” as meaning big/overweight/full figured. I just thought it meant shapely and well proportioned.

When I told a female friend about this she shook her head and said it was never a good idea to comment on a woman’s figure, even if I thought it was complimentary. What do you think about this?

I had a boyfriend that was so protective he called me every single day. If I was busy I would tell him that I would call him back like in 20 minutes he would wait till the 20 minutes would past and call me and say why didn’t you call me back I was waiting for you to call. So now we still talk but he changed and I’m kinda still have feeling for him. What should I do?