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How do i know if she’s really interested?

Anonymous — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 21:12:31 +0000

I used to know this girl, when we met a year ago we hit it off, but we never met again. A couple months ago we bumped into each other again, and like last time we hit it off, we started talking over the phone for hours, and i’d never get bored, it started to be more than a friendship when she brought up sex, im a 20 yr old guy pretty good shape, and shes a 24 yr old girl that recently got a divorce and has 2 kids, she told me that she really liked me and even went as far as to saying im perfect, anyway, we met up later that week at her apartment, had amazing sex pretty much all day, and i was really falling for this girl,we hung out the entire weekend, but one night she said she would call me to hang out, and she never did, suddenly it seems like she lost interest, i got this feeling that there was someone else cause she told me she has more guy friends than friends that are girls, and her phone kept blowing up everytime we hung out, so i freaked out and called her at least 6 times and she never picked up…after that we havent spoken, 2 months later when im finally getting over her she calls me out of the bloom, and askes if im still mad and if we can atleast be firends maybe more later cause she still likes me, when she was the one that never called back, she heard that i was heartbroken and it was affecting my daily activities, my concern is how do i know she just doesn’t feel sorry for me? And is seeing other people? Ive asked her straight up and she denies it, i just don’t know if im ready to date a girl with a lot of guy friends, im the jealous type. You girls know how girls play the game, i need some advice asap, i still have feelings for this girl, i just don’t know if shes doing this to other guys too.

do i really have a reason to be this self concious?

Anonymous — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 22:54:40 +0000

my penis is 6″ long and im 5′ 11″ 20 years old. its always been a problem for me in relationships cause i have it in my mind that she cant possibly be getting what she needs and ive never been able to muster the courage to ask mainly cause i believe that because they are right there and dont want to hurt me that they will not tell the whole truth. and i need the bitter unsweetened truth

told her im falling in love…..

Anonymous — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 11:42:21 +0000

hey.

basically been going out with a girl for 4 months.
2 months ago she asked if i was her girlfriend and i told her that i would love to be her boyfriend as i’ve known i;ve liked her from early on.
but….
last night i told her im falling in love with her and although she said that i shouldnt be scared to tell her that she never said much back, she was very awkward with me this morning and seemed she couldnt wait for me to leave….she not been in touch as yet.
have i messed things up? please help

Is she a whore, who I’m trying to see as innocent?

Anonymous — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 15:25:18 +0000

I started dating this girl. I knew her through a friend, and we had talked online, and n the phone a few times. The first night she came over my house, we had sex within the first 20 minutes. It’s 6 months later, and we’re still dating. The sex is always amazing. She loves sex. I seriously doubt she would ever cheat on me, shes not that type, but her and her friends always joke about her being a stripper or porn star, because she is pretty hot, no lie. I asked her if she really wanted that, and she said that it would be really fun to be in a porno, and that she probably wouldn’t do it, but maybe would one time if she was paid a lot, just to do it. This is bothering me a lot, because i really dont see her as this kind of slutty girl. We joke about getting married and having kids and she was maybe going to live with me soon. I told her it bothered me, and that i didnt know what to think. Am i somewhat living a lie? Is this just a slutty girl who im trying to make her how i want to see her? Or is this a common response among women?

How do I get my girlfriend to open up more & acknowledge our relationship

Anonymous — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 12:21:30 +0000

I met a girl around mid december this christmas. We hungout for a while; while I was stuck in the friend zone.. then on christmas we finally had sex.

The last time I got her to open up and discuss our relationship she put me on the cuddy buddy level. I told her I was ok with it. But after a few good love sessions I was infatuated with her. She asked me one day if all I wanted was sex. I said no I want you! (end point)

The only time we kiss is when we cuddle or when we have sex. And during sex we don’t kiss often 90% of the time I’m the one kissing lol.

My friends have said I’ve become a yes man to her & I feel the same. She has all the power. I’m a nice guy (too nice sometimes). Like when I let her use facebook, myspace, and skype on my computer. She has guys trying to talk and flirt with her all day.

My friends say that just makes it easier for her to use me. I agree & I’ve explained to her how I feel about it and after keylogging a little I believe I can trust her but I still don’t like it.

When do I know its ok to kiss her? Should a guy be asking for a kiss, hug, or any type of physical contact?

my email is ac919nc@yahoo.com
for some reason yahoo does not accept emails from this domain

how can i get horny fast and stay horny longer?

Anonymous — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 04:50:47 +0000

my boyfriend is always horny and gets horny fast. i dont like the way my body is but he loves my body. right when we start having sex i start thinking about if he is looking at body and i just get out of the mood

women and body image

Anonymous — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 06:06:47 +0000

I met a really attractive and intelligent woman at a party a few weeks ago. It was a public event at an art gallery. She was a high school teacher in her early thirties. We had been talking for a good half hour and really seemed to be hitting it off. We even exchanged email addresses and had made tentative plans to meet for coffee sometime.

Then, things suddenly went downhill. I commented that she had a “nice, full, hourglass figure”. I thought she would take it as a compliment but instead she became deeply offended. She snapped, “Oh really….well perhaps I should do some plus size modeling!” I went into damage control mode and tried to clarify my comments but I think I only exacerbated things when I used the term “healthy”. With a look of complete disgust, she slapped my face and departed.

I will never forget those agonizing moments in the immediate aftermath, as I was standing there alone rubbing my cheek, drawing some judgemental stares from onlookers. Needless to say, it was not my proudest moment, LOL.

She had the classic figure of a 50’s pinup – large bust, narrow waist, shapely hips/legs. I guess she had interpreted “hourglass” as meaning big/overweight/full figured. I just thought it meant shapely and well proportioned.

When I told a female friend about this she shook her head and said it was never a good idea to comment on a woman’s figure, even if I thought it was complimentary. What do you think about this?

Why are some guys so protective?

Anonymous — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 13:04:41 +0000

I had a boyfriend that was so protective he called me every single day. If I was busy I would tell him that I would call him back like in 20 minutes he would wait till the 20 minutes would past and call me and say why didn’t you call me back I was waiting for you to call. So now we still talk but he changed and I’m kinda still have feeling for him. What should I do?

i treated my girl bad and she left me

Anonymous — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 21:45:18 +0000

i treated my girl really bad sumthin no 1 should go through. we were 2gether for 1 yr. 7mon. and she finally left me ive done so many things 2 change myself i dont know wut else 2 do. its cuz i had a anger probleme and it ruined our relationship ive been takin takin anger classes ever since she left me all i want is her bak and treat her like she diserves but she doesnt really wanna talk 2 me wut should i do!~

ex boyfriend

Anonymous — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 17:29:00 +0000

My ex – boyfriend is my daughter’s father he hurt me bad but he wants me back he;s started for a month
been calling coming around nothing new he does then don’t see for a long time.
I moved here 15 months ago and I started not letting him in when i don’t wont too he got the phone number overheard me talking to lady at rent to own store Now there are times I have him take me to the ATM may get something to eat sometimes our daughter is with us. He’s only about one thing and i know he
wont’s me back he’s not working and if i would give him the green light he would probably be here of days I don’t know why I feel guilty when it comes to his girlfriend she’s at work she’s called for him to pick her up.

I was stupid and I told him she couldn’t stay with us but she did that’s why I can’t stand her he’s not getting me back and probably have her to noway besides I need somebody who’s going to work or try he started on the drugs I just took to much off him I put him out took him back in he’s very cold I’m glad I’m away from him . I ask myself how I can stand to look at him I believe it’s our daughter she’s 15 handicapped and he’s been distant .

How do I handle him same way I have been don’t wont to be bothered don’t open the door he has a habit of just showing up he hasn’t here wee hours of the morning since last April I only would
let him in because yo never know when he’s been drinking, smoking not all the time may start tripping I live in a very quite apartment complex. I don’t wont to be used again by him or no other man
what advice can you offer me.