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I met this other guy on a cruise, we exchanged emails and started chatting about 2 1/2 months ago. I spent 2 weeks at his home. since then we have talked on the phone every day sometimes 3 or 4 times a day. we talk every night for hrs he calls me all the time.
I really like him but not sure what his fellings are. what should I do?

Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 years back. She married somebody else. Now she has suddenly mailed me and wants to explain as to what happened and wants to know if we can sort things out and find some sort of closure. I don’t know if I should reply back. Please advice.

I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now. I live about a half an hour, more or less, from him. I see him every one or two weeks, three depending what is going on on the weekends. We love eachother, but it is just so hard not seeing eachother very often. what should i do to help us last longer? is there any way to make not seeing each other for so long easier?

well , i’ve met this girl 7 years ago . and now maybe 5 months or so we started talking and we have gotten to know eachother very well. we are seriously bestfriends. after getting to know her i felt like i kinda liked her. a little longer and i knew i loved her. we talk just about everyday all day or however long we can talk. a wihle ago i told her i liked her i didnt want to .. but i had to.. even though she already had a boyfriend. her reaction was positive . she said she would but she cant .. and i understood compleatly that i couldnt be with her at the time. after i told her things were diffrent between us. it felt like the closer i got to her the more she pushed me away. then now it just feels like we get closer and closer up to a certain point. she keeps acting as if she likes me when shes around me when i look her in the eyes she stares at me and then she blushes and looks away quick and shes always playing with her hair. it feels almost as if shes flirting with me to keep me around.. recently i told her how i really felt about her and if theres a chance we could be together. she said “We’re like bestfirends and.. idk its just confusing” i asked her if it was because shes afraid that something might happen and ill leave her. she said “well.. yea.. ” … ive told my self that its ok that i cant be with her as long as she is happy. i know i sound like a selfish ass, but i just really want to be with her and i dont know how to go about this anymore shes the only girl i want to be with. im sorry for making this so long and confusing.

I met my guy friend back in January.. I had a boyfriend and this is how the story goes… I meet this guy in nursing school.. we instantly get along and become very good friends… all awhile Im not seeing him in a romantic way because I have a boyfriend. Anyway, he did sweet things for me, like offer to cook me dinner and invited me to stay at his house while my electricity went out during the ice storm. We talked more than I talked to my boyfriend and I was happy but I still didnt see him as more than a friend because I was too obsessed with making my current relationship work out… time went by and as my current situation got more and more serious with the boyfriend my “friendship” with my friend faded into almost nothing.. Semester was over and at the start of May my boyfriend dumped me. I still hadnt talked to my friend, but gradually I started to realize maybe I had had feelings for him and had ignored them because of my loyalty to my relationship. I decided to start texting my friend again and seeing how he responded… We went to the bars a couple times with mutual friends and he was very touchy/flirty but that’s not unusual because he’s an outgoing guy (with me at least). He picked me up, danced with me, and the next morning I even got a text from him saying “I hope you had a good time, you looked really pretty”… I was feeling good about that but then Id never hear from him anymore.. I started texting again but it was getting old having to start all of the conversations. He asked me to go camping, but never really planned a date.. im very confused. I decided i’d step it up and ask him to go to a wedding with me… he said yes, but im still not hearing much from him.. I always have to text him first but he always answers.. ALSO he’s currently living in a different city over the summer.. im not sure whats going on here… should I keep tryng or should I let it go?