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I met this guy a good month ago. We met through a mutual friend. He asked me for my digits and we have texted almost everyday. Some days just one text or two. Once in awhile he will call when he wants to hang out. He wanted just the two of us to just get together and he even set up a day, but he never showed. He forgot. He was busy with his buddies. He felt terrible. Then I didn’t make much of an effort to see him again, because I thought I was more of an option rather than a priority. Later he invited me to go out with him and his friends a couple times. I did. He didn’t pay or anything, but it wasn’t expected since we are not boyfriend and girlfriend. He is a social butterfly, so I can’t tell if he likes me more than just a friend. He has many girls as friends. He used to text me a lot more, but it is slowly fading. What do I do? Is he worth getting to know more? If anything did work it would be long distance.

About a good month ago I met a guy through a mutual friend. He asked me for my digits. Ever since then he has texted me almost everyday and he acted real interested. He used to shoot me texts all day long, but now it is only one or two times a day if even. He wanted to get together. He planned it all out, but never showed up. He forgot and ended up going out with his buddies. I told him it was no big deal. When I reminded him he felt terrible and promised to make up for it. I didn’t bother putting any effort in him since I seemed to be more of an option rather than a priority. Later on he invited me to hang out with his friends a couple of times. I did. He didn’t pay or anything, but I didn’t expect him too. He is a social butterfly and knows many ladies. I can’t tell if he wants to be more than friends or if I’m just a pal? What do I do? He used to talk to me more often. It seems to be fading. If anything did work out it would be long distance. How could I make him become more interested again??

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Ok so I’ve been with this guy for a couple of months, but I’m not sure we are on the right track. In the beggining things were perfect, we were literally the perfect couple, but here lately it seems like he’s caring less and less about me. When we first started dating we were actually happy all of the time, and it seemed like i was his world, because that’s how he treated me. My problem is that he is always so ill towards me nowadays, and when I try to kiss him he always pulls away; it’s like he doesn’t want to touch me. We don’t even kiss during sex anymore, and when we do it’s nothing but a peck. He tells me everyday that he loves me, he just doesn’t act like it. We’ve been together for 5 months and he’s been living with me for 4, is it just because we see eachother too much or does he just not care? And is there anything I can do to make him act more like a boyfriend?

I have been with my girlfriend a few years now and we have our share of fights, some worse than others, but recently we got into a really bad one and I was sure things were over. After the fight I ended up meeting another girl who I have been talking to but things ended up getting repaired between my girlfriend and I. Now I don’t know what to do because I am not a cheater but I don’t want to hurt either of them. I’m not sure if I am losing feelings for my girlfriend or if it has something to do with missing her and trying to replace that with love because it is a long distance relationship and it has been many months since we have seen each other. I don’t know what to do. I’m not doing anything more than just talking to the other girl about myself. She likes me and has feelings for me so I don’t want to lead her too far and hurt her. What would be best to do? Keep talking to her and see how my feelings are and be with whatever girl makes me happiest, should I try to talk to my girlfriend and see if she can fill in the gap that is causing me to continue talking to another girl, or should I break up and just get to know both of them?

I have known this girl for a while now. We play around with each other and we flirt with each other. We hang out at the same place every monday and I hang with her brother a few times a week too. Yet when she is sober, we talk in all, but she would keep her distance at times.

I know she is going through some problems, getting a divorce, and have a daughter and a couple of other problems on top of that.

When we hang out and when she has a good buzz going on or drunk, she will not leave me alone at times, yes we will play around and flirt with each other. But at times when she is buzzed and I dont antagonize her, and keeping my to my own business, she will look at me and stare me down at times, or antagonize me. When I am talking with one of my best friends (female) she would get jealous and wont talk to me for the rest of the night at times.

I have asked her out one time before and she said yes, but she had to cancel on me. My friend (guy) was trying to get me to ask her out for a bit, but she got into trouble and when I asked her out again, she was shocked and could not look at me and told me she would only do it as friends. But I eventually told her how I felt about her and I liked her and I dont want to do anything to hurt our friendship but she was flattered, hugged and kissed me on the cheek and gave me an “I love you.” I was left speechless when she done that to me. I thought she would give me give me a I dont want a relationship speech.

Recently Ive learned that she and my friend were seeing each other. I learned tonight that she does not know their relationship status. Last I heard about him is that he was supposed to get married soon, but I guessed he called it off, and yet he pushed me toward her. Yet she still flirts with me and playes with me and “sort of” seeing my friend.

I’m not really hurt or anything, maybe a little upset. But the thing that is turning me off for relationships is a couple of gigs I have comming up. But it seems she does not want to let me go yet not to keep me close.

Me and my partner have been together for just over 2 years now we talk about our future all the time and i couldn’t imagine my life without him as corny as it sounds and i know he feels the same because he tells me all the time My problem is that his past isn’t the best he has cheated on quiet a few of his ex’s or tho he promises me he hasn’t nor will he ever cheat on me with i do believe for the most part in the back of my head i keep hearing what my mother use to say “once a cheater always a cheater” i have talked to him about it and he says we can work through it i get pretty uncomfortable when he is around or even talking about other girls im just so afraid i wont be able to completely trust him with other girls i know he said we could work through it but i cant help but feel like its not fair on him and he would be so much better off with someone else i love him with all my heart i just dont know what to do