My live in boyfriend of 2.5 years told me that he wanted a break because he thinks we aren’t good for each other and after 4 days broke up with me over the phone and made me move out (he owns the apartment). After 2 weeks of no communication, he texted me saying that there are things we left unsaid and wants to know if I want to meet up and talk or if I prefer not to. When I texted back that I am busy on the weekend and will talk to him next week (not sure if I actually will or not), he texted back that he is glad to hear and that I should enjoy my weekend and then called me his nickname for me. Why does he want to talk – does he want closure and to feel less guilty for being an ass during the breakup? Why is he so happy that I have plans? And why is he still calling me his nickname for me?
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sounds kind like he’s being superficial about it if he said he was happy about your weekend and then called you by the nickname.. and I’d say it sounds like he wants closure, maybe for both you and for him rather than just him maybe. do whatever you feel is comfortable. it was harsh kicking you out, inevitable, but I don’t think its a “let’s get back together” talk
I can appreciate a person who wants to talk things out like an adult when ending a relationship…I see no wrong in this. Be glad that he wants to get everything out before you two walk away from each other because this will leave no doubts about why the breakup occurred.
You didn’t give a history of your relationship, but my guess is that things have been rocky between you two over the time you’ve been together. The reason he may still be calling you by his pet name for you is to let you know he still cares about you.
A breakup is never easy, and I’m sorry that it’s happening for you two after being together for 2 1/2 years…that’s a significant amount of time in any relationship. I hope your future is better.