I met this girl in 05. We dated a few weeks and broke up. Her ex, Ryan, she went to his house and happen to sleep with him that night. We got back together. She emailed her ex, Jimmy, when we was together, I found out and she quit. Well things we’re fine, I guess til July of 2009. I was over the road, but home every weekend. I get a text that her mom wanted to take her out to eat. I said, 40 minutes later she texts me saying I’m going to be mad and disappointed. She had contacted her ex-boyfriend and ex first love Chris and was going to dinner with him. She didn’t want to she was just lonely, so I quit and came home that night.
Well I found out today of her secret email and facebook acconts where 2 of the 3 exs were apart of. Nothing was up on it just exs. Well I found out she had called her one ex, Jimmy, who was a teacher her senior year she slept with, and I had found the number back then and she said it was her boss and not to call it, wish I would have now lol.
Anyways we seperated in February, and she contacted all three of her exs, 1 is a drunk still, married working in Missouri, the other one Chris, told her that he wanted nothing to do with her. The other ex, Jimmy lives 6 hours away so not that convient. We got back together in March.
Well I confronted her and she apologized for it all and said she was depressed cause of her figure since the baby borned 2 years ago, and not having money, tho now I’m making great money. She also kinda got defensive calling me crazy for snooping. So I want to know what you would do with knowing all this?
she’s using you
I would call you stupid, but I can’t because I’m in the same situation. My girlfriend keeps having sex with other guys and I keep taking her back. Of course like always she keeps telling me she’s not going to do it anymore, she’s sorry, she loves me, and doesn’t want anyone else. One of the guys is married has about five kids, the other guy just want her as a fuck friend, and the other is a powder head. It really hurts me but I try to be strong about it. I told her she has no other chances if she messes up again. I keep going back on my word but I really mean it this time. I guess love makes you do crazy things. Sometimes I think about cheating on her, but I love her too much to hurt her the way she hurt me.
read your message above. don’t cheat! but don’t put up with the crap either. you deserve better too. you both do. hope you can find the strength to leave and find someone that knows what it means to love and be loved.
this would apply:
Dating Mistake #2: Trying to Rehabilitate a Bad Boy
Ending a relationship is rarely easy, and though flying solo might not be your long-term goal, being on your own is better than feeling alone in a relationship with someone who treats you poorly. Even when it might be tempting to give a toxic romance one more try, knowing when to cut your losses and move on leaves you available and baggage-free when the right guy comes along.
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/8-dating-mistakes-even-smart-women-make-1286935/
There is no reason for her to be talking and hanging out with her exs. Low self esteem is not a justifiable excuse. If she needed attention – you were right there – she couldve got it from you. I think she is playing you for a fool and you are letting her. Cut it off. You will find some one who actually deserves, wants, and appreciates your love and affection.